Non-Verbal Cues When Teaching

Your words matter—but so does everything else. In middle school ministry, non-verbal communication can make or break a lesson. Here’s how to use it well:

1. Eye Contact = Connection
Looking students in the eye (briefly, not creepily!) builds trust and keeps them tuned in. It tells them, “I see you. You matter.”

2. Facial Expressions Set the Tone
A smile disarms. Raised eyebrows show curiosity. A serious face says, “This part matters.” Your face is part of the lesson—use it.

3. Posture Speaks Volumes
Stand tall to command attention. Lean in to show empathy. Sit with them during discussion to show you’re in it withthem.

4. Movement = Energy
Don’t pace nervously, but don’t stand frozen either. Move with purpose to shift energy and reengage drifting minds.

5. Silence is Powerful
Pause before or after a key point. It creates space for reflection—and often pulls students in more than any word could.

PRO TIP: Your body teaches as much as your voice. Make sure both are saying the same thing.